Tag Archive: Friends

What has happened since my last update?

Here is a list.

1) I stopped seeing that FWB dude.  Well, stopped hearing from would be more accurate.  2 rounds and then no communication. Oh well.

2) I tuned 30.

3) Saw Laine.

4) Met a online friend in real life.

5) Fooled around with said friend. Decided to become FWB.  I don’t have a online name for him yet.

6) I moved.  More space, less rent!

7) Have become interested in someone out of town. More to come on that later.

8) Working way to much

9) Had a two hour cuddle session with a friend.

10) Thinking more on the importance of non-sexual touch.  Not just job related, but also in personal relationships.  I have a post I am working on for that as well.

Thats Ivy in 10.  I will have to sit down in the next day or two and pound out a post or three with everything going on.  Lets just say for now, that I am very happy with my life and where things are going with it.  I feel like I am finally in the right place and time.  I am feeling open to being in a relationship again, with the right person/people of course.  And I feel like I am open to loving someone again.  Thats a good feeling to have.

That’s all for now,



Bible Study (Ivy)

Last night was our very first Poly Meet (AKA Bible Study).  Agnes, Koi, Myself, and our partners were there, including some new and old friends.  For our first meet we had 12 people show up.  I think we invited 14?   It was so great to meet with new people and be open about our lifestyles and not have to censor my actions or words.  I went early with IDV8, a past partner/sometimes lover/kink partner (and current very good friend) and we had a nice dinner together.  To be able to hold his hand, cuddle with him and just be ourselves was fantastic!

There were times when I would sit back and just take everything in.  Everyone seemed to be having a lot of fun.  There were no awkward pauses, or uncomfortable conversations.  Not matter who you were talking to or what you were talking about everyone was having fun.  Lots of laughter and smiles and general all round fun!

I really hope that I am able to make it back for more meet ups this summer!